12: How to Gain a Sense of Certainty About Your Value and Exhibit That, Even Under Pressure

Eleanor Roosevelt, a powerhouse of strength and wisdom, once dropped a gem of a quote that stuck with me: “A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.” 

We’ve got this incredible ability to face challenges head-on and come out even stronger on the other side. 

In the landscape of human resources, navigating the complexities of leadership, empathy, and strategic decision-making, women leaders are often met with the distinct challenge of asserting their value, especially in high-pressure situations. 

In this episode you’ll find practical advice and strategies to cultivate and communicate a deep sense of confidence in your value, regardless of the circumstances you face.

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 1.       Building the Foundation of Self-Worth for HR Women Leaders

The journey toward recognizing your unique value starts with self-reflection. It's crucial to identify and appreciate the unique skills and perspectives you contribute to the management team. 

Whether your strengths lie in conflict resolution, creating engaging employee programs, or navigating the complex landscape of compliance, your value is rich and diverse. Every now and then, take a moment to list all your skills and achievements. 

Don’t be your worst critic – be your own cheerleader!

2.       Strategies to Maintain Certainty in Your Value

Keeping up-to-date with the latest HR trends and dedicating time to personal development are key strategies to enhance your confidence. Moreover, cultivating a network of peers and mentors is invaluable for reinforcing your sense of worth and providing a supportive framework for growth.

You know, building a network of peers and mentors is kind of like having your own personal dream team. It's not just about having people to bounce ideas off of; it's about creating this amazing support system that's there to back you up, push you forward, and remind you of your worth, especially on those tough days.

Imagine having a group of people who've been there, done that, and can share their wisdom and lessons learned. It's like having your own cheering squad and wisdom council rolled into one. This isn't just good for your professional growth; it's a game changer for your confidence too. It's about knowing you're not alone in this journey, having that solid foundation to lean on, and growing together. So, get out there and start building those connections. Trust me, it’s one of the best moves you'll ever make for your career. This ties in with the next strategy.

3.       Innovative HR Practices That Highlight Your Value

Leading the implementation of innovative HR practices can distinguish you as a forward-thinking leader, emphasizing your value to the organization.

By leading the charge on innovative HR practices, you're not just ticking boxes or following the manual to the letter. Instead, you're crafting a legacy of being a visionary in your field. It's about spotting trends, thinking two steps ahead, and introducing fresh, groundbreaking strategies that set your organization apart. 

This forward-thinking approach does wonders for your reputation within the company. It's like you're the go-to guru for all HR things innovative, showing everyone—not just your team—that you're all about pushing boundaries and setting new standards. It's not just about being part of the team; it's about leading it into the future.

4.       Demonstrating Your Value Under Pressure

In moments of high stress, the ability to communicate effectively becomes critical. Clearly and confidently expressing your thoughts can significantly impact how others perceive your leadership abilities. 

By maintaining a cool head, identify with others, and communicating transparently, you can guide your team through turbulent times with compassion and foresight. 

This approach not only showcases your resilience and leadership skills but also inspires your team to follow these qualities, fostering a positive and productive organizational culture.

5.       Balancing Assertiveness and Empathy

Achieving a balance between assertiveness and empathy is an essential skill in HR leadership. When you're handling the delicate balance between assertiveness and empathy, imagine yourself in a scenario where you need to discuss performance issues with an employee who's facing personal challenges. 

You start by setting up a private meeting, where you first express your understanding of their personal situation, showing empathy and creating a supportive atmosphere. 

Then, you shift the conversation to their performance, being assertive yet clear about where expectations haven't been met, providing specific examples for clarity. 

Recognizing their unique circumstances, you offer practical support, like flexible working hours or counseling, and work together to create a performance improvement plan with realistic goals and regular check-ins. 

This approach not only ensures that performance standards are maintained but also builds a culture of trust and respect. It showcases your leadership skill in balancing firmness with compassion, making you a respected and effective HR leader.

6.       Feedback: A Tool for Growth and Assurance

Actively seeking and constructively using feedback can strengthen you further proving your value to the management team.

Think of it like this: every piece of feedback you get is like gold. Seriously, whether it's good, bad, or a bit of both, it's all incredibly valuable. When you actively seek out this feedback and really dive into it, using it to tweak and improve your leadership style, it does wonders for your confidence. 

It's like, the more you know, the more you grow, right? And here’s the kicker: management notices this big time. They see you not just taking the feedback but actually doing something with it, making positive changes.

This shows them you're not just talking the talk; you're walking the walk. You're showing up, making adjustments, and proving your worth every single day. It’s a game changer in how they see your value to the team. 

Solidifying Your Value as an HR Woman Leader

Gaining and showing a sense of certainty about your value as an HR woman leader, especially under pressure, is a journey of self-discovery, strategic action, and continuous growth. 

By recognizing your contributions, building confidence, and navigating challenges with grace, you can establish your position as a valuable and effective HR leader.

Remember, your value is not just in what you do but in how you empower, lead, and inspire those around you.

I hope you found this episode insightful and valuable. Please share it with your fellow women leaders who might benefit from these insights. 

Remember: You are powerful and unstoppable and it’s time for you to show it! 

Choose to be the best version of yourself today!

It’s all up to you!